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Sharing my stage IV colorectal cancer story with others is a blessing, though I¡¯ll admit: at the time of my diagnosis, I didn¡¯t feel this way.

In June 2016, my gastroenterologist discovered a 4.5-centimeter mass in my cecum -- a pouch connected to where the small and large intestines meet -- during a colonoscopy. A subsequent CT scan revealed that the cancer had spread to several lymph nodes and my liver. Up until that point, I was a healthy and physically active 71-year-old, and suddenly I was thrust into a world of uncertainty and medical jargon. Trying to wrap my mind around it all was like trying to drink through a fire hose -- overwhelming.

Colorectal cancer treatment at MD Anderson

I didn¡¯t like what my first oncologist had to say, so I came to MD Anderson for a second opinion. and recommended I begin treatment with surgery instead of chemotherapy because my tumor was impacting my appendix. So during a four-hour surgery in July 2016, Dr. Bednarski removed the tumor, along with 2 feet of my large intestine, several infected lymph nodes and my appendix.

Shortly after surgery, I began chemotherapy under the care of at MD Anderson in The Woodlands because it is close to my home. Every other Monday, I spend about four hours getting my infusion at the clinic, then leave with a chemo pump to continue treatment for an additional 48 hours. Since I still have multiple cancer nodes in my liver and lymph nodes, I will continue this process indefinitely.

Enjoying life despite cancer treatment side effects

Chemotherapy leaves me nauseous and fatigued, and I¡¯ve developed neuropathy in my fingertips and feet. I¡¯ve also had to change my diet to accommodate my altered taste buds. However, people constantly comment on how well I look in spite of cancer. I believe that¡¯s the result of my continued efforts to stay active.

I can¡¯t exercise with the same intensity as before, but I still take mile-long hikes and do chores around the house and garden. I even purchased a bicycle to ride around my neighborhood. I do it not only because I know exercise is so important for my health, but because physical activity was always a passion of mine.

One of the biggest lessons I learned since my diagnosis is that enjoying life does not stop with treatment. Despite the hardships, I can -- and do -- live with cancer. I make future plans and travel when I can. I get on my motorcycle and ride with friends in good weather, and I like to play games with my grandkids. I try to live as normally as possible.

Finding the blessings in your cancer diagnosis

When I was first diagnosed, I didn¡¯t see things this way. I didn¡¯t want to share my diagnosis with anyone because I didn¡¯t want to feel like a burden. After word got out, I became overwhelmed and actually embarrassed by how family and friends responded. I realized that my loved ones actually feel a need to help, and once I welcomed their giving hearts, I felt compelled to give back to others. 

Now I share my story with whoever listens -- even prison inmates. We all have struggles, and learning to talk about them is empowering. I had no idea how my journey could impact others until I learned to speak out. It¡¯s like cancer has opened doors for me to grow in ways I had no interest in before.

Cancer is a chapter of life. It¡¯s not easy, but it can bring goodness into your life. Think of a way you can give back. You will be amazed at what blessings are returned. 

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